May 31, 2015  – Glioblastoma &  Eternity 

I’m amazed. I’ve said over and over again that if brain cancer is what gets Mike to heaven, then it is worth it even if it cuts Mike’s life short on earth. The pastor tonight expressed the same thoughts about his uncle who died of brain cancer and I for a second thought “Whoa! I said that. Did he read my blog?!” (Ha!) Seriously, it felt like he repeated word for word what I’ve said to many close to us. Then I realized that the pastor and I both simply had the same revelation and I felt such confirmation over something that has stirred in my heart since the beginning. The big picture is eternity. That is huge! I’ve said that maybe God needs to take Mike young for him to spend eternity in heaven, that maybe if he were to live 40 more years that he wouldn’t know God and wouldn’t see heaven. Knowing God and getting to heaven is so much more important than the number of days on earth. Brain cancer has saved Mikes life. His eternal life.

To see the video of the service, skip to this post.

It makes me think of times that I have offered to take my kids somewhere. There have been times I’ve said “Come on, we are going now or we aren’t going at all.” Even if Mike were to die tomorrow, I would proclaim without a doubt that we saw miracles. I would be heartbroken but my heart would rejoice at the miracles we have been blessed with. The blessings that God has had the opportunity to give us because of brain cancer has outweighed all the heartache and all the struggle. We feel deeper and see beauty that we never could have seen. I know that if Mike were standing in 2012 and God showed him how the three years would play out and handed him a brain cancer card and gave him a choice, he would play the card. Even typing that seems crazy because I don’t think I could live some of those moments over again. It blows my mind, but it’s the truth! When Mike understood that he had brain cancer he often said that it was a blessing and that it was a “life reset button.” He now doesn’t understand that he has brain cancer. He can’t relate one moment to the next. He asked 15-20 times during church where his wallet was. Before we left the house he was brushing his hair with a toothbrush. He looks out the window at least 5 times a day and asks if we got a new vehicle. He gets lost in our house. But when he understood that he had brain cancer, he was thankful for the changes brain cancer brought in a way that’s hard to explain without feeling like I’m insane and typing gibberish. There’s a peace that brings me to remember that.  He often called his brain cancer “a means to an end.”   We all want to see miracles in real life. They sound awesome right? We are all “yay, miracles!” You know what that means though? It means you have to be in a desperate, empty, painful and hopeless place. A place where you are out of options. A place where you have absolutely no control. That’s the place miracles happen. Miracles happen in heartache and brokenness. It’s not a pretty place to be. But you know what else? It’s worth it.

You are looking at a family that has been miraculously healed.    

5 responses to “May 31, 2015  – Glioblastoma &  Eternity 

  • robin jamiola

    Beautiful. Simply beautiful.

  • Dianna Hamilton

    What a beautiful post from an amazing woman!

  • gweldy

    Glad to hear you were able to fellowship with other believers. Most of all, thankful for your words. My Roger had a liver transplant in July of 2012; he was hours from dying before he got the liver. After that, he always said that any time he had were bonus years, an extra gift from God. Bless you and you terrific testimony.

  • Jerri Bast-Cadogan

    This brought me to tears. You are so very courageous and strong. I met Mike when we were stationed at the Marine Corps Finance Center in Kansas City, a wonderful person with a great sense of humor. Please tell him hello and that I was asking after him. You, Mike and your family are in my prayers. God bless you.

  • Jerri Bast-Cadogan

    I apologize, didn’t know if my first comment made it. Take care.

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